Scott Tsui


Scott Tsui is an author, book publisher and entrepreneur. He is passionate about creating mediums for gay men to connect so that they can inspire each other by sharing their experiences and wisdom. Scott aims to help nurture the gay community into a more healthy and positive environment for growth.

Scott was born in Hong Kong and migrated to San Francisco in 1976 at the age at thirteen. As a resident of San Francisco, Scott grew up in a multicultural environment where he encountered a diverse population. His first relationship with his Hispanic partner lasted sixteen years, and he now shares a fifteen-year relationship with his second, current partner.

In 2006, Scott created a blog called where gay Asian men could express their personal feelings and grow emotionally, inspiring each other spiritually while also learning from each other. Over the space of two years, Scott recruited 20 writers from 7 different countries, and more than 200 articles were written and published.

In 2011, was transformed and expanded to where Scott explored video production, ePublishing, events planning and online social networking/dating services. The common ground throughout this work is relationships and growth.

In 2014, evolved to which retains the essence of as an online social networking/dating services and medium. It also expanded the scope of memberships to couples and non-organizations. PePPii stands for Passion, Energy, Purpose, Playfulness, Inspirations and Identity. Scott hopes to bring these positive values and notions to his community where his fellow brothers could thrive and grow.

With many single friends over the age of 40, Scott discovered that loneliness is a common condition in the gay community. Scott is also fascinated by couples who share lifelong relationships lasting two, three or four decades. This book is based on his own experience, interviews with single gay men and couples, study results, and his independent surveys. Scott wants this book to provide solutions to a community where loneliness leads to stress, isolation and depression.


Loneliness is all too common among single gay men. Studies have shown it impacts our physical and mental health profoundly; not sharing our deepest feelings can cause stress and depression. Many gay men long to find their life companions, but in the face of major challenges, that dream can seem far too remote.

Learn how to…

  • To significantly increase the chance of finding your husband!
  • To find 8 essential rules for finding the right partner, based on real-life experiences shared by gay single and married men.
  • Their stories will help you identify common patterns that prevent you from finding that special someone. You’ll also learn how many couples have stayed together for decades, with insights into why their relationships last.
  • When there’s a will, there’s a way! …But there are also times to let go of the past, to grow emotionally and spiritually. With this book, you’ll discover new rules for breaking old patterns and finding the husband/partner who’s right for you.

In these pages you will uncover…

How to significantly increase the chance of finding your husband/partner by using the “8 Rules To Find Your Gay Husband” Learn how to take charge of your life and make it happen!

Rule no. 1 – Let go of your old rules
The first step is openness. Take a deep breath and just imagine a new blueprint to help you move forward. Embrace change!

Rule no. 2 – Be brutally honest
Define who you are and make the changes required to attract the person you want. Leave you baggage behind. Reinvent yourself!

Rule no. 3 – Re-evaluate your needs
Life changes and so do we. Re-prioritize your wants and needs based on who you are today. Get real!

Rule no. 4 – Build a robust supporting system
Build emotional muscle by gaining support. Seek others who understand you and can advise you on how to grow and thrive. Be prepared!

Rule no. 5 – Work with proximity
Distance matters. Locate the right pool of potential husbands. Identify, aim and fire. Focus and take action!

Rule no. 6 – Master the dating game
Learn new skills. Think about the conversations you’re having and the questions you should be asking. Be proactive, not passive!

Rule no. 7 – Choose wisely
Read signs, watch for red flags, and think clearly. Analyze actions more than words. Look closely!

Rule no. 8 – Don’t be complacent
Learn from others how to nurture a longlasting relationship. There will be challenges and compromises. But it’s also rewarding. Enjoy it!
3 types of relationships you need to know before jumping into one

8 questions to ask on your first date

10 questions to ask your potential husband

12 secrets from couples together for 2+ decades Independent survey results


“A must-read for any gay man, looking for a real and meaningful relationship.” – Marilag L. Mendoza , Author of Forgiveness

“The essential guide to finding, Mr. Right.” – Patsy Chia, Author of Burden No More

“Finding a husband is never easy. But with a few simple rules, Lonely No More makes the journey a little less bumpy.”
, Author of It Ain’t All Chocolates & Roses…

“Honest. Passionate. A real life-changer.”
John A. Akaatenger
, Author of The Spark

“Dating is a minefield – and I’ve tripped on plenty. But Scott’s book helped me see the mistakes I was making – over and over. His rules helped me figure out how to change direction. Today, I’m more confident than ever. The future is brighter. Lonely No More works.”
Tracy Allen
, Author of You Gotta Go Some Time

“Lonely No More changed the way I look at dating.”
Sheila Deb
, Author of To Fight or Not to Fight